This morning on CBS This Morning I saw a new story about extended families living under one roof. There is a builder in Florida who specializes in homes that house multi-generations. The grandparents have their own private suites.I think it is an awesome idea. It cuts down on bills, travel, and support plus everyone still has their privacy. (The grandparents had their own entrance from outside to their suites.) I have always thought that my mother would live with me once I settle in a place, well if that ever happens. However, does the idea work for single adults? Wouldn’t they just be considered living at home with their parents?
I read a post the other day that stated that there was an issue with guys who still lived with their parents. Now I see where this could be an unattractive especially if they guy had never lived outside the home and had never supported his self. But what if the tables were turned and the parents had moved in with the son? Does that make a difference?
I think times are different because of the economic downturn. It's a good idea to save money...but from my personal experience, people tend to disrespect things in which they have no input or ownership. If it was a temporary fix with a legal document stating the time limits, I could consider, but I was raised in that when you are 18, you leave.
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing like having your own place. We've had family members live with us when I was in jr. high and high school and I abhorred it. I guess that's why I live by myself now.
I understand what you mean. I thought about this subject some more yesterday after speaking with a co-worker. They told me that I would save money if I had a roommate. Yea, I may save money but I wouldn't be happy. Being considerate of others is cool but sometimes you just want to do you! :) If I lived with another person I may feel obliged to wash dishes everyday and would expect the same from them. Living alone gives me the choice to wash them whenever.
ReplyDeleteHowever, I think I would still be open to sharing an attached dwelling with a parent or grandparent. Umm, living with other family members would be a definite no!